πŸ• π“π‡πˆππ†π’ 𝐓𝐄𝐄𝐍𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 π˜πŽπ”π“π‡π’ π’π‡πŽπ”π‹πƒ ππŽπ“ πƒπŽ 𝐈𝐍 𝐀 π‘π„π‹π€π“πˆπŽππ’π‡πˆπ #3 𝑫𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 π‘Όπ’π’“π’†π’‚π’π’Šπ’”π’•π’Šπ’„ π‘¬π’™π’‘π’†π’„π’•π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’”

 

Joshua, a 22 year old final year Electrical Electronics Engineering Student, had a relationship with an 18 year old girl by name Sophia, a third year Economics Undergraduate. 

Sophia came from a wealthy family while Joshua has a humble/indigent background.

In the process of their getting along together, Sophia loved Joshua because he was calm, intelligent, God fearing, peaceful and fun to be with.

Joshua became free with Sophia as he discovered she loved him. She assisted him in many ways including purchasing some of his text-books, and also gave him money to complete the payment of some of his tuition fees.

One day something dramatic happened

Joshua asked Sophia for money and she responded, she don't have at that time because she had already given him money to purchase 6 Text-books.

Joshua became upset and Sophia was astonished. They had little misunderstanding. 

One day Joshua decided to hang out with Felicia, his Course mate. He started falling for her after series of timeout together. 

One Evening, Unknown to Joshua, Sophia saw him (Joshua) and Felicia laughing (Lol); talking seriously in a relaxed mood at the school love garden. She stared at them and started shedding tears.

The next day, she confronted Joshua and asked him what's transpiring between him and the girl he was with the previous day. He was shocked. 

He said nothing. They had a serious misunderstanding.

Sophia called up the relationship after 2 weeks of silence. Joshua pleaded, and pleaded but Sophia refused. She insisted they should end the relationship.

After 2 months of break up, Sophia came back and asked Joshua to forgive her; that she over reacted. Joshua refused...

πŸ• π“π‡πˆππ†π’ 𝐓𝐄𝐄𝐍𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 π˜πŽπ”π“π‡π’ π’π‡πŽπ”π‹πƒ ππŽπ“ πƒπŽ 𝐈𝐍 𝐀 π‘π„π‹π€π“πˆπŽππ’π‡πˆπ 

#3 𝑫𝒐𝒏'𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒗𝒆 π‘Όπ’π’“π’†π’‚π’π’Šπ’”π’•π’Šπ’„ π‘¬π’™π’‘π’†π’„π’•π’‚π’•π’Šπ’π’π’”

 this is one of the major factor that destroys Relationships. Below are some examples of unrealistic expectations;

a. Thinking your friend is perfect - Nobody is perfect. We are walking towards perfection. No human is error free.

b. Thinking your friend can never hurt you - some hurts are not intentional but they occur cause we are human. Learn to forgive and don't bear grudges.

c. Thinking your friend will supply all your needs - please note that only God has the capacity to supply all your needs. Don't expect your partner to meet all your needs; you'll be disappointed.

d. Thinking that your joy is dependent on your friend - happiness is a product of happenings. It's temporary in nature. It's a feeling. Just as weather, it comes and it goes. But Joy is a fruit of the Holy Spirit. Irrespective of any situation - good or bad, you'll still be joyful. But note; Never put the key of your happiness in somebody's else's pocket. If your happiness is determined by an external factor, you'll encounter depression and disappointment. Only God can give you Joy. Only you can make yourself happy. If you're not happy within, you cannot be happy without.

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